Tova Payne

Coaching you to take action on your Dreams with clarity, confidence + connection

Is Fear Stopping You From Reaching Your Full Potential?

Wouldn’t it be nice if there was an easy-button solution to overcome fear?

Well I’ll tell you: if this existed everyone would buy The Easy-Button-Fear-Solution—but no such solution exists.

Not all fear is bad. There are two types of fear: one exists to caution you. It’s telling you to stop because it will take you off your path/further away from your vision—creating an unnecessary detour and making the trip to your goal longer than it needs to be.

The other fear is the very thing that will lead you forward to fulfilling your dream.
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How to Create Healthy Boundaries: An 8-step Process

Boundaries: What are they, How to figure them out, And feel good about standing your ground:

Picture this:

You start your day off  on a strong note—You’ve meditated, prayed for a good day, and repeated your morning affirmations: You’re set to face the day.

A client calls “Hey, I was wondering if I could cancel our meeting this afternoon and reschedule for tomorrow”

Although you thought your morning practices buffered your confidence and strength—you find yourself wavering.

Actually, there’s no doubt: you feel your body sink and think “This client is not worth the headache” Yet you smile through the phone lines “Sure, no problem, what time would you like?”

Sound at all familiar?

This kind of scenario can pop up in work or relationships. Saying yes when you want to say no.

At the root of it all is healthy boundaries.

What are boundaries?
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Finding Clarity and Inspiration in Your Work

Today I have an interview for you: it’s with Kiley Redhead the founder of The New School For Inspired Work.

I first met Kiley about a decade ago in a class at The Canadian School of Natural Nutrition. Since then we both traversed onwards in our entrepreneurial journeys and life had us reconnect once again. Kiley’s journey has led to the creation of an innovative school that helps people create clarity, and as she describes “to discover, create, and live your inspired work.”

In this interview you’ll learn some key tips on how to create clarity and what it means to discover work that fills you with inspiration and connects to your purpose.

Running time is about 25 minutes. A great listen to get inspired while you sit and relax, or even while you’re exercising. Enjoy!

 

And here’s a brief overview of what you’ll learn in this interview:

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Why Its Impossible to Turn People off Just Because You Have a Niche

When people talk about creating clarity in business, one of the number one topics is choosing a niche.

There’s a lot of contradictory information out there about what a niche is, and at times I explain niche in a way that does not give the term it’s full value, but for the sake of simplicity a niche is your role (how and what you help people with) with a specific ideal client/dream client/target market/segment of society…
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5 Inspiring People You Should Know About

Today I’m sharing 5 inspiring people you should know about. These people have inspired my life and entrepreneurial path, and I hope they’ll be an inspiration for you too.

Beware: This is not your typical list (as you’ll see, I get my inspiration from all over) I believe we can all gain through sharing our inspirations with others, so here’s 5 people I’m grateful to be inspired by:
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The Power of Living Fully + 3 Ways to Make Today Count

Today I’m sharing a story inspired by a friend that reminded me of the power of living fully and not taking life for granted:

Earlier this week a friend on Facebook wrote: “Today makes it 10 years I cheated death when I was ran over by a 50 ft dive boat”.

And I remember that day because I was there, on that island in Belize when it happened. And in the aftermath I decided to go with a few others and spend the next 2 months in hospitals at my friend’s bedside.

Hearing that update was a wake-up on many levels:

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